How to Turn a Friend into a Girlfriend

Want to know the age-old answer to how to turn a friend to be something more? It can be summed up in just one word.

Variety.

Variety is EVERYTHING and it rings true in ALL aspects of your interactions with women if you want to turn a friend into being your girlfriend.

The more emotions she feels around you, the stronger an impression you’ll make. The more interesting things she learns about you and tells you about herself, then the more deeply she’ll feel connected to you.

And the more places she visits and things she does and sees with you, the longer she’ll feel that she’s known you.

And the longer a woman who is attracted to you has known you, then the more inclined she will be to act on that attraction and go further with you into a deeper, more “romantic” relationship.
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How to Get the Most From Online Dating

Online Dating Basics

Online dating is not as simple as it looks, you need to know how to go about it in order to get the best out of it. Unfortunately quite a lot of people who decided to give online dating a try ended up with their fingers burnt.

Here are a few pointers to consider when you start off online dating.

Getting started in online dating
There’s an old adage ‘fools rush in where angels fear to tread’ which is certainly true here. It’s always best to be cautious when you’re in unfamiliar uncharted territory. You need to plan before you actually go out there and start showing your cards.

Just because the world and his wife can type out whatever they want in a chat room doesn’t mean that you have to do the same.

One of the benefits of the internet is that anybody can use it. Unfortunately one of the drawbacks of the internet is also that anybody can use it. There are a lot of nice people using the Internet, but just as in the offline world, there are some not so nice people too.

So where do you start?

The first tip I would like to give you is NOT to go straight away into a singles’ chat room and try to find somebody who would interest you. We all know that most of these chat rooms are flooded with people who have only one thing on their mind – sex.

So instead of going into a singles’ chat room, what you could do is to try the whole thing out from a different angle. You could try working backwards.

In other words, decide what you’re looking for, and then go look for it.

It’s more than just looks

Sit for a minute or two and try and think about the things that interest you and things that you would find interesting in a person.

By ‘things’ I am not talking about physical attributes. I am not referring to something that might interest you in a person’s physical appearance. A distinction needs to be made between a serious relationship and a casual relationship. In a casual relationship, the importance is always for the physical attributes. We are more concerned with what the person looks like and what the person has been endowed with.

On the other hand, if we have a serious relationship, then the physical qualities are not so important. Compatibility is probably the most important factor over here. Along with that there are certain qualities that obviously we will be looking out for. We are talking about qualities of the mind. After all, beauty is only skin-deep!

This idea might sound strange, but it is actually true. The idea is that it is possible to grow to like the looks of a person. Once you find the character of the person agreeable you will start liking the person as a whole. It is entirely possible to fall in love with a person if the person does not look like a movie star. That is one of the tricks that nature plays.

There are many people who insist on taking a look at the other person’s picture before actually committing to a relationship. They might have their reasons of course, but I, for one, feel that such a decision based largely on looks is more suitable for a casual relationship. It is bound to sizzle off after some time. After all, how long can you keep staring at a person? And what happens if the person doesn’t stare back at you?

Or even worse, what happens if you find the person staring at another person? Looks may be important, but they certainly are not the most important thing and should never be used as the deciding factor if you are thinking about a serious relationship.

So what are your interests? What do you enjoy doing? And what are your dislikes?

Dislikes are just as important, or even more important than likes. We all have to make compromises here and there, but if we start off by condoning things which we genuinely dislike, one way or another the day will come when the relationship will end up in tears.

Only after you’ve considered the kind of person you’re looking for should you start using an online dating site.

How To Get Women to Approach You

Did you read the title of this article properly? It’s not ‘how to approach women’, it’s how to get women to approach YOU’. A BIG difference!

I think you’re really going to like this because I’m going to share a little trick with you that really makes it easy to meet a woman.

Too often – in fact probably most of the time- guys are just too nervous to approach a girl because of all uncertainty that’s involved.

Think about it for a minute.

What runs through your head when you want to meet a woman?

“Am I her type?”

“Does she have a boyfriend?”

“Will she find me attractive?”

“Maybe she’s too busy to meet anyone.”

“Will she be receptive to me talking to her?”

I’m sure you can think of at least 100 more things that run through your mind when you see an approach opportunity come your way.
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How to Write a Dating Profile

Writing your dating profile

So you’ve taken the plunge and decided to join an online dating site. Congratulations, you are in the 21st century where meeting people via an online dating club is becoming more and more common and accepted.

Now you need to put together your profile so you can attract the kind of person you’re looking for. And you’re probably wondering what to say and how to say it.

The first thing that you should do is take out a pencil and paper and write down the raw details about yourself. By raw details we are talking about things like your age, your height and your weight.

This is the skeleton which we are going to build on. And when we have added enough flesh and blood to this backbone, why even you will be impressed by your profile! But first let’s steer clear of some pitfalls which most people fall into.
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Online Dating Safety for Women

Online dating can be a fun and certainly a rewarding experience for women of all ages. Maintaining your safety while doing it is simply a combination of using common sense and exercising good judgment. Online safety rules are the same as real world safety rules.

You wouldn’t give your name, address and phone number to a strange man that you met in a bar or on the street so you should never do that online either. Play it safe. Get to know this man who could turn out to be Prince Charming before you give out any information that could make it possible for him or others to trace you. Don’t tell a stranger exactly where you work. Say that you are a legal secretary (if that’s what you are) for a mid-sized law firm….not that you work for Brown, Smith and Jones Attorneys-at-law. It is safe to tell him what city you live in but you should wait to be any more specific than that until you have been chatting and exchanging emails for awhile.

Use only the tools provided by the dating service you belong to. Most offer chat and private email on their site. Do not give out your isp email address. If you must give out an email address make it a free one such as Gmail or Yahoo. Your isp address is traceable for anyone who wants to go to the trouble.

When the time comes for you to have your first face-to-face, make that first meeting in a public place and during day light hours. Take a friend with you or arrange for one to call you on your cell soon after the arranged meeting.

Remember…you ARE in control so do not let anyone pressure you into revealing more personal information than you are comfortable with revealing.

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