How to Turn a Friend into a Girlfriend
Want to know the age-old answer to how to turn a friend to be something more? It can be summed up in just one word.
Variety.
Variety is EVERYTHING and it rings true in ALL aspects of your interactions with women if you want to turn a friend into being your girlfriend.
The more emotions she feels around you, the stronger an impression you’ll make. The more interesting things she learns about you and tells you about herself, then the more deeply she’ll feel connected to you.
And the more places she visits and things she does and sees with you, the longer she’ll feel that she’s known you.
And the longer a woman who is attracted to you has known you, then the more inclined she will be to act on that attraction and go further with you into a deeper, more “romantic” relationship.
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How To Get Women to Approach You
Did you read the title of this article properly? It’s not ‘how to approach women’, it’s how to get women to approach YOU’. A BIG difference!
I think you’re really going to like this because I’m going to share a little trick with you that really makes it easy to meet a woman.
Too often – in fact probably most of the time- guys are just too nervous to approach a girl because of all uncertainty that’s involved.
Think about it for a minute.
What runs through your head when you want to meet a woman?
“Am I her type?”
“Does she have a boyfriend?”
“Will she find me attractive?”
“Maybe she’s too busy to meet anyone.”
“Will she be receptive to me talking to her?”
I’m sure you can think of at least 100 more things that run through your mind when you see an approach opportunity come your way.
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Alternative Dating Ideas
One of the great things about dating in this day and age is the amazing versatility and availability of the methods you can use to seek out your preferred type of person or activity.
Dating can be extremely confusing and frustrating, no matter what your particular situation may be. Here are some alternative dating ideas that might appeal to people who don’t want to go down the traditional route of seeking a mate.
Singles bars have been around for a very long time now, and although they may not appeal to everyone what makes them ideal is the fact that everyone has the same goal in mind. You’re all in the same boat, and it may not be subtle but it certainly is straightforward.
Speed dating gives you an even shorter time to make an impression. As an alternative dating technique, it can be a lot of fun. You sit opposite someone and each of you have a few minutes to tell the other about yourself. When the bell rings you move on to the next table, start at square one and repeat. If someone bores you to tears, your suffering is short-lived. At the end of the evening, you connect with those that tickled your fancy and go from there. If you didn’t meet anyone you clicked with, there’s no pressure and you can simply go home and attend the next session. This is becoming a very popular technique for singles, and even those who may mock it and perhaps go ‘as a joke’ or on a dare end up enjoying themselves.
Dating agencies have become quite popular in recent times. Professional people who lead busy lives like to use them. It’s an alternative dating method that is not foolproof but it’s somewhat safer, as all clients have gone through a filtering system. Many agencies utilize video dating, whereby the client makes a brief video of themselves and has access to other client videos for perusal. You don’t have long to make an impression, so it’s best to just be yourself. You want to come across as a genuine person, not a phony.
Many communities have singles groups that embark on fun activities together, and this is is a great alternative dating method. Events like biking, bowling, dancing, curling, movie nights and comedy clubs are organized by the singles group, and it allows an evenly-distributed group of participants to have a fun and casual night. With the emphasis put on the activity itself rather than attempting to make a romantic connection, it takes a lot of pressure off the singles and attractions occur a lot more naturally in this kind of setting.
Making a great first impression on women
Making A Great First Impression On Women
By Tiffany Taylor
ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you’d be surprised by how many men don’t understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it’s become a bit of a cliché because it’s true — first impressions really do count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies.
If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.
It’s the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you’re on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success – no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can’t stress this enough — always try to look your best.
Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.
Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S’s and always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S?
Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
What you wear is very important. I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men’s magazine’s and imitate the styles you see there — most women don’t really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don’t have to spend the Earth on clothing.
Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.
Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good – you feel an instant attraction even though you don’t know her – well, that’s how women feel too.
Wear a good-quality cologne, but don’t spray too much.
One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists — maximum. You don’t want to smell too overpowering.
I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don’t sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here’s a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won’t find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is…
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How to have sex on the first date
How To Have Sex On The First Date
By John Alexander
Author, “How to Become an Alpha Male”.
Having gone out with with literally thousands of women and gone to bed with hundreds over the past two and a half decades, I’ve learned that there’s nothing you can do to GUARANTEE having sex with any particular woman.
However, by doing a few simple things, you can dramatically INCREASE THE ODDS of going all the way on the very first night of your relationship.
1. Meet her in a non-traditional venue.
By that I mean, don’t take her to a fancy dinner or do anything else that she associates with a “date.” If you do, that puts her into the same “make him wait” mindset that she adopted with the last 100 guys who bought her a nice dinner.
Instead meet her somewhere informal, like a coffee shop or some cheap diner for lunch. Don’t make a big deal out of who pays for what, because again, the last 100 guys she dated paid for her meal because, as was blatantly obvious to her, they were hoping to get laid.
As an alpha male, you shouldn’t do anything because you’re “hoping to get laid.” That reeks of desperation and kills attraction that a woman feels.
A more attractive guy is one who gets laid all the time, so sex is no big deal to him. If a woman wants his attention, she has to earn it. In other words, he is a challenge for her, not a sure thing.
2. Have the proper mindset throughout the date.
You want to be relaxed and feeling sexual. (To get yourself into a sexual state, try watching porn just before the date, but don’t masturbate.) And it’s important to feel relaxed. No nervousness.
For a woman to become sexual, she needs to feel relaxed and horny. It is important that you feel that exact way yourself, because studies have shown that when two people are in rapport, they eventually match emotional states with each other.
So when you’re chilling with the girl, you should feel deeply relaxed and horny, and then engage her in conversation about neutral subjects until you see signs that she too is getting relaxed and horny.
3. Get her alone with you.
Let’s say you and the girl hit it off fantastically in the coffee shop, so you then take her to a bar to get a quick drink. Things are really going well there. The conversational vibe is excellent. You see signs of her increasing sexual arousal and openness to intimacy.
Some signs of a woman’s deepening sexual attraction to you include: – Sitting with her inner thigh exposed.
- Fidgeting with her clothes. She might even unfasten a button or two of her blouse.
- She engages in “triangle gazing.” She’ll look at one of your eyes, then another, and then at your mouth.
- You notice her stealing glimpses at your chest and even your crotch.
The problem is you can’t just say, “Let’s go to my place and have sex.” With women you’re on a first date with, whenever you verbalize anything sexual, it kills the mood for her and results in you sleeping alone that night.
Instead, mention an innocent excuse for the two of you to go to your place. (Examples could be, “You should come hear my ‘Best of the 80s’ CD” or “That’s awesome that you’re so good with art… I have a painting in my living room that I’d love to get your opinion on”)
Since the two of you have an “innocent” reason to be alone together, it avoids triggering the alarm bells in her mind that scream, “Uh oh! I don’t want to be a slut!”
Once the two of you are then alone, isolated at your place, you can set the scene for the seduction.
It can take several hours for the woman to feel comfortable enough with you at your house, so you need to be patient.
Sit on your couch and watch a movie. Slowly escalate. Hold hands, stroke her hair, and so on from there.
Sexually, women are like irons. They heat up slowly. Keep that in mind and don’t rush things, and you’ll have your maximum shot at having sex on a first date.
John Alexander is author of “How to Become an Alpha Male”. Learn the 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying “hello” to a new woman… to sharing orgasms in bed with her… in just one evening!