The most effective way to pick up a woman

Here’s the mindset you should have if you really want to be
successful when it comes to dating and meeting women.

Firstly, take all the things that your mom & dad ever taught you
about how to treat and date a woman and do the exact OPPOSITE!

It’s not a secret anymore that even though a woman constantly
says that all she wants is a nice, sweet, and caring guy in their
life, often times they’re actually lying to themselves — without
them even realizing it!

It’s true!

Seriously.

In the movies, yes, the girl always falls for the nice guy, but
in real life, especially more so if you really want to be able
be with as many women as possible in your lifetime – the nice
guy route will get you nowhere and you’ll end up getting nothing
but rejections.

I’m not going to go into the details on the ‘why’ part of it
because most of you might have already know about it.

Just in case you still don’t know why, you can read and listen all
about it here in my newly released “Instant Attraction Program”

But what I AM going to talk about today is why do women,
especially attractive ones can act rather ‘bitchy’ and rude
sometimes and how you can effectively pick up one – with ease.

First of all, you have to understand that attractive women, they
get ‘hit on’ one way or another at least 10 times a day everyday
- consistently.

Now at first it may all seem happy and nice with them receiving
all the attention from the guys, and sure they can be all cutesy
and polite to them whenever they’re being approached but
after a while, it all tends to get rather irritating and
annoying – merely because they’re hearing the same ol’ lines,
howlings and perv stares over and over again.

Exact words from a woman’s mouth – not mine.

So what they do about it?

Well in order for them to ‘save time’, they would then be
‘forced’ to be more ‘to the point’ or as we like to call it
‘bitchy’ to the guys that approach them.

Why must they be so mean?

Simply because they HAVE to.

You see, if they weren’t mean enough, guys who are usually
thick-skinned will not get the point and they’ll keep on
pursuing UNTIL she says a firm no.

Makes sense?

How do I know this? Well, to be honest with you, it was merely
by chance. I didn’t get any of it at first until I started to
really mix with women.

Sometimes, it’s really good to have close girl friends because
you might learn a LOT from them. I now begin to see it all from
THEIR perspective now…

How to approach a woman?

Now, I’ve noticed that most guys (the majority of them actually),
whenever they approach a woman, they always start off by saying
something like ‘Hi there, you’re gorgeous, oh by the way, my
name’s John, what’s yours? I’d like to get to know you, bla bla
bla…”

Heard of such a line before?

Or probably something along these lines?

Now, think about it. If you’re a girl and you get asked the
same question about 5-10 times a day, do you think that there’s
a high chance that you’ll get immune to it?

Of course you would!

And I’m not guessing here because I had a girl friend who once
told me the same thing that I’m telling you now!

It’s just too ‘typical’ for them to receive such lame,
everyday ‘pick up’ lines.

Best thing is, do you know instead what they would rather hear?

Try this:

Go up to her, and just give her a funny compliment on something
she LEAST expects to get a compliment on (NEVER compliment her
looks, she’s immune to that, remember?), you can compliment on
her funky hairstyle, her heels, her big ears — anything.

Just as long as its something she LEAST expects to hear from
a guy.

Using humour is always good in picking up women. Humor added
with a bit of spunk, along with a spot-on sarcastic tone and
body language will definitely seal the deal for you — and
get her interested.

Surely.

Think about it.

This works.

[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the “Instant
Attraction Program” — the community’s MOST COMPREHENSIVE
program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.

Body language basics for seducing women

Guys: Body Language Basics For Seducing Women
By Tiffany Taylor

Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.

What does this mean to you?

It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).

You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.

Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.

Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out my site: guygetsgirl.com).

Body language basics:

1. Smile

You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile

2. Eye contact

As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!

When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.

Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.

3. Upright posture

Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.

Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.

4. Gesticulate with open palms

You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost certainly copied from this course).

I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!

Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.

It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.

This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively.

Those are the basics of body language, if you’d like to learn more visit Tiffany Taylor’s site by clicking here

How to meet older women

If you’re a guy looking to have a good time with women, and you’ve been focusing on the “younger generation” of females out there, you might be surprised to find that you’re actually missing out on a LOT of great potential relationships.

In these modern times, older women are becoming more and more an option for guys looking to enter the dating scene. Whether the girl is a couple years older than you, or a full blown “cougar” looking for a hot stud, you have some great, un-tapped
options.

See, there are lots of very “career-focused” women out there nowadays who have achieved some level of success with their businesses and are now looking to find love. There are also women who have gotten divorces and now find themselves open to meeting new men. Whatever the case, the number of available older women is growing.

And for the typical man who’s open to dealing with more “experienced” women, this couldn’t be better news.

So here’s the real question…

Are you interested in dating a woman who’s older than you are?

Do you find older women more attractive than their younger counterparts?

Well, my friend, you are not alone!

Older women are much more “mature” and experienced in the ways of love. They’ve usually had a lot of practice dealing with men, and know their way around the bedroom.

They can also be MUCH easier to deal with than younger women, who can tend to be a little “high maintenance.”

If you’re a man in your mid-to-late 20s who’s mostly been with women in their late teens and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!

They tend to be more mature and less selfish – sexually, and in just about every other way – than the women you’re used to dating. And if you’re not looking for
anything serious, the chances are higher that they’re not either, if they’re just past child-bearing age.

In that way, they’re kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and younger, who don’t feel compelled to start a family in the way that single women who’ve hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, she’s more likely to feel that now’s the time to act if she’s ever going to have children.

That’s because she’s not getting any younger, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, it’s only going to get harder to find a great man she can settle down with.

(By the way, a lot of women at this stage make a mistake that a lot of men make their entire lives: they get desperate. Some women actually repel men because of their desire to get into a serious relationship sooner than the man is comfortable with. And a lot of women at this stage will settle for a man who they’re not compatible with, but who will end up fulfilling their need to have a family.)

So how can you start meeting older women?

The first place I’d start looking to meet older women is on the internet.

Yes, it’s true. I didn’t stutter. I’d say that 90%of the older women you’d like to meet are online.

Understand that many single, older women either have kids or work (or both).

This means that they don’t really have time to go to “traditional” places to meet men, like bars or clubs.

So hitting up websites like Match.com, eHarmony, and even MySpace can be a great way to meet these older women, since they tend to use these sites often.

Other good ways of meeting older women are to go to places you’d know to find them! So avoid that trendy bar or club, because you’d usually find these women at more laid back places.

Coffee shops in the morning and afternoon are really good places to meet older women, simply because they are the places women stop on their way to and from work.

You can also meet older women just going throughout your day – be it at lunch, at the mall, shopping for groceries, or whatever it may be.

But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you decide to get married: If there’s a 15-year age difference between you, then she’ll be 50 when you’re 35!

But that’s not to say that you shouldn’t meet and date an older woman. It can be a great experience for you, if you’re aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.

Honestly, the art of meeting and dating older women could fill a book, and unfortunately, I just don’t have the time to go as much into detail with this as I would like.

So if you’re interested in learning more about how to meet and date older women (or just women in general), then I would highly recommend you sign up for my free How To Meet Women crash course.

No where else on the internet will you find such a detailed and comprehensive resource – for free, no less – on how to meet and date the women of your dreams.

I will show you all the secrets you need to know on how to overcome your anxiety of approaching women, and how to not get rejected – EVER – so you can actually have FUN meeting and dating women instead of feeling like its a chore.

Just click this link to sign up for it now:

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But hurry, I don’t know how much longer I’ll be making this resource available for free.

Wishing you success,

Joseph Matthews
Author of The Art Of Approaching Women

Help yourself! First dates that lead to seconds

Even if you flunked science at high school and you can’t pronounce “phenylethylamine,” let alone spell it, you ought to know that it’s the secret ingredient for concocting a truly tasty first date.

Phenylethylamine (PEA) is the natural “love drug.” It controls all those powerful brain chemicals that create the heart-fluttering sensation of attraction. All you have to do is pump up the PEA—in the right circumstances, of course—to make your date crave more.

Since the structure of PEA is much like amphetamines, you should plan a date that’s reasonably active and stimulates the senses. And no, that doesn’t mean  videogames! It should be something that gives you plenty of opportunity to interact with each other. That way, your date will associate all that pleasant stimulation with you.

This is also why those same-old same-old movie dates just don’t cut it. Dinner is very  nice, but the first time out, it can be a strain – to say the least – to maintain conversation face to face with somebody you don’t know very well. Dancing is perfect—but only if the music isn’t so loud that you can’t talk. If it is, you’re only stimulating half the package.

Check your local newspaper to find out what’s going on in your area. You may be surprised by the variety of free entertainment you can find. The possibilities are practically endless if you don’t mind the price of admission. Here’s a list to get you started.

Spectator sports

• Air show
• Auto rally
• Ball game: softball, soccer, rugby, baseball, basketball, football . . . Look for local teams, high school games, spring training, exhibition games.
• Balloon race
• Boat race
• Outdoor concerts. Check the newspaper for free ones. Churches often host concerts, too.

Interactive playtime

• Amusement/theme park
• Antique auto show
• Antiques market/show
• Aquarium. Water is sexy.
• Carnival
• Community festivals & street fairs
• Conservatory/botanical gardens. Stop and smell the roses!
• County fair
• Dog & cat shows. First make sure your date isn’t allergic!
• Flea markets & yard sales
• Museums. Look for a featured exhibit or share your own personal favorite.
• Wine tastings. These are often very inexpensive or totally free.
• Zoo. Good place to observe human behavior . . .

Active involvements

• Beach/water park—as long as your date is comfortable, first time out, in a bathing suit. Of course, beaches are good for walking, jogging, horseback riding, kite flying, people watching, picnicking . . .
• Bike riding. Find a bike path or trail in your area and go for a ride.
• Billiards/pool. Unless you’re a pool shark, this can be an easygoing game that allows plenty of conversation and diversion at the same time. If one of you doesn’t know how, the other can teach (obvious contact advantages).
• Bowling
• Canoeing
• Cooking lesson. Department stores, cookware and gourmet shops often give one-time cooking lessons. When you’re done playing with your food, you get to eat it!
• Dancing. The trouble with clubs is the noise level. Why not take a dance lesson together?
• Hiking. City, state, and national parks usually have hiking and nature trails. Pack lunchthrow some drinks or a lunch in a backpack and have fun.)
• Horseback riding
• Ice skating
• In-line/roller skating
• Kite flying
• Miniature golf
• Photography. An instant camera (such as a Polaroid), a digital, or even a couple of disposable cameras; an interesting location; and each other for models . . . picture it!
• Sailing
• Skiing—or how about sledding? (It’s cuddlier!)
• Tennis
• Water skiing
• Work out together: jogging, weight training, yoga . . . find out if you have similar tastes in physical exertion. Why not take advantage of a free gym tryout? Finish up in the hot tub. (Water is sexy!)

Old standbys, but with a kick

• Picnic. Go together to a gourmet or specialty food store and choose a few things you’ve never tried before, or maybe just one fabulous chunk of cheese or honey-dripping hunk of baklava. A farmer’s market or even the local grocery offers plenty of options. Take your bounty someplace comfortable and dig in. Just don’t forget the chocolate!

Movie. Movies aren’t really the best idea for first dates, since you spend so much time sitting side by side, looking straight ahead and not talking. Just doesn’t stimulate the right attraction-chemicals in the brain. But in the summer, some museums and park districts show movies outdoors, often for free. Take a picnic and something comfortable to sit on, people-watch, and talk to each other.

Don’t knock it till you try it

• Reading aloud. Poke around a used-book store or the local library. Depending on your tastes, pick something very funny, slightly steamy, or silly romantic. (Sometimes it’s all the same thing!) Don’t hesitate to comment, use appropriate voices, and take turns. Try reading the dialogue to each other; role play. See what develops

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The truth about Cupid

Oh, that cute and cuddly Cupid! You see him everywhere, this time of year, all pink-cheeked and chubby, wearing only a diaper (if he wears anything at all) and aiming a lethal arrow straight at your heart!

What’s the deal here? Who in their right mind would give a bow and arrow to a baby?

His parents, probably. Some think his mother was Aphrodite, the goddess of love, and her husband, Hephaestus, the god of fire and metalworking. On the other hand, Aphrodite was unfaithful, so his dad might have been Ares, the god of war. Either way, it was a dangerous combination, at least for humans.

Cupid, which means desire, was his Latin name. Sometimes he was called Amor, love. Before that, the ancient Greeks called him Eros, and he was responsible for lust, love, and sex. He was worshipped as a fertility god. His name is the root of the word erotic. Read more

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