Comments on: How To Get Women to Approach You http://www.findalover.com/dating/how-to-get-women-to-approach-you/ Wed, 26 May 2010 00:43:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Anders Tryka http://www.findalover.com/dating/how-to-get-women-to-approach-you/comment-page-1/#comment-197 Anders Tryka Mon, 16 Feb 2009 19:28:51 +0000 http://www.findalover.com/?p=321#comment-197 Nice article. I don't know if Thundercat "came up" with that one but hey, I'm sure he has a great explanation on the application in the book, as you describe... It's a great way to approach - and... well, YOU are still approaching, so it's hardly about getting women to approach you? The tactic you describe works extremely well in street or shop scenarios as it creates a feel of positive spontanuity to the situation. Eye contact before opening is important in a lot of scenarios, except when you want to put on a display of being surprised, or when you actually want her to open you, in which case you do not even need eye contact, ... A favorite tactic of mine is to position myself next to the girl I want to talk with, an then focus on building rapport with her while I am talking with someone else - I.E. the bartender. The second time she glances over I'll just look at her and go "what?" with a smile. That will ALWAYS happen as you focus on developing rapport, ... and if you DON'T do anything after the second glance, she will open you in more than 50 % of your attempts. Nice article. I don’t know if Thundercat “came up” with that one but hey, I’m sure he has a great explanation on the application in the book, as you describe… It’s a great way to approach – and… well, YOU are still approaching, so it’s hardly about getting women to approach you?

The tactic you describe works extremely well in street or shop scenarios as it creates a feel of positive spontanuity to the situation.

Eye contact before opening is important in a lot of scenarios, except when you want to put on a display of being surprised, or when you actually want her to open you, in which case you do not even need eye contact, … A favorite tactic of mine is to position myself next to the girl I want to talk with, an then focus on building rapport with her while I am talking with someone else – I.E. the bartender. The second time she glances over I’ll just look at her and go “what?” with a smile. That will ALWAYS happen as you focus on developing rapport, … and if you DON’T do anything after the second glance, she will open you in more than 50 % of your attempts.

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