Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.

What does this mean to you?

It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).

You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.

Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.

Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out my site: guygetsgirl.com).

Body language basics:

1. Smile

You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile

2. Eye contact

As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!

When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.

Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.

3. Upright posture

Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.

Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.

4. Gesticulate with open palms

You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost certainly copied from this course).

I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!

Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.

It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.

This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively.

Those are the basics of body language, if you’d like to learn more visit Tiffany Taylor’s site by clicking here

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Recent studies have found that people form an impression of you at first sight, in another flicker of a fraction of a second. They don’t even have to see something clearly to get a feeling about it—specifically, whether it attracts them or not.

But not to worry. Such fleeting sensations are flimsy, ephemeral—easily adjusted. All you need is a minute or two, a smile, a good opening line, and you’re in like Flynn. Right?

Not so fast, Slick.

Those first impressions can stick to you like glue, no matter how smooth your line is. The problem is, it’s what you don’t say that tells people more than half of what they think they know about you. It also tells them plenty of what you think about yourself.

Body language is the lingua franca of the dating game. You wear it like a signboard, whether you think about it or not, so it’s a good idea to know if yours says Kiss Me or Kick Me.

The first rule of body grammar is this: the better you feel about yourself, the more attractive you are. When you’re comfortable in your own skin, you’re more relaxed, so you tend to put the people around you at ease. You stand straighter and taller. You’re more balanced.

Don’t think that doesn’t matter. A lot. Balance makes you look symmetrical. Symmetry is a powerful indication of the ability of your genes to achieve the body they were aiming for, and that translates as health and desirability. Study after study has proved that symmetrical faces are usually judged more attractive. Believe it or not, there’s even a correlation between a man’s symmetry and women’s attraction to his body odour and voice—even when they can’t consciously see the difference.

So you’re feeling pretty good, you’re standing straight and solid. What else do you have to worry about?

Rule number two: pay attention. Much of the confusion between the sexes happens when we don’t understand or even think about those nonverbal signals.

For example, if you’re trying your opening gambit and the lady stands with her body pointed away from you—even if she’s looking you straight in the eye—she’d really rather be someplace else. If you’re sitting down, crossed legs can mean the same thing. Notice whether the other person’s leg points toward you or away from you.

If their arms are crossed, it’s a safe bet they aren’t buying your story. Is the lady hugging herself? She’s not necessarily cold; she may just feel cool toward you. On the other hand, she may feel insecure or threatened. Either way, you’re not getting through.

Watch yourself, next time you’re in a group. Odds are, you’ll catch yourself doing the same things. But though you may be telling everybody what you really think of them (even though you didn’t mean to), you also have the key to changing the way they think about you.

This is how it works: next time you want to connect with somebody, simply copy their body language. Don’t be obvious; just casually mirror their position. If she props her chin on her hand, you lean your head on your fist. If she pulls on her earlobe, you scratch your ear. Try crossing your legs in the same direction.

The fact is, you probably do this naturally when you’re talking with someone you already know and like. (Check it out sometime.) But you can encourage that connection with anyone you meet, if you just pay attention.

Let’s say you’re dealing with somebody who’s less than receptive. Their arms are crossed, and they’re leaning away from you. Go ahead: mirror their body language. Not comfortable? That’s okay; keep it up for a minute. Now, quietly shift position. Lean forward. Uncross your arms. Chances are, the other person will unconsciously follow your lead.

Presto! Without noticing, they’re feeling more open. You’re even starting to look better. You’re connecting!

You see? Now admit it: Mom was right all along. You’ve just got to remember to stand up straight!

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